This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.
Genesis 2:24
This verse describes marriage from the very beginning of Scripture. Two people leave, join, and become united. Jesus himself quoted this verse when he spoke about marriage.
ReflectHow might couples nurture the unity this verse describes in the everyday routines of marriage?
Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
Solomon observes that two are better than one. Partners help each other succeed and lift each other up. It is a practical picture of companionship.
ReflectWhat is one way you could help your spouse or a close friend succeed this week?
A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:12
The triple-braided cord is a favorite image at weddings. Two people standing together are strong, and with God as the third strand, stronger still. It is a beautiful picture of a marriage centered on God.
ReflectWhat practices help keep God at the center of a marriage, like the third strand in the cord?
Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each other’s faults because of your love. Make every effort to keep yourselves united in the Spirit, binding yourselves together with peace.
Ephesians 4:2-3
Paul describes the qualities that keep relationships strong, humility, gentleness, and patience. Love makes allowance for faults. Unity is maintained through peace.
ReflectWhich quality, humility, gentleness, or patience, would most strengthen your closest relationships right now?
Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.
Colossians 3:14
Paul describes love as the garment that holds every other virtue together. Clothing ourselves with love is a daily choice. It brings harmony to every relationship.
ReflectWhat would clothing yourself with love look like in one specific relationship this week?
let no one split apart what God has joined together.”
Mark 10:9
Jesus emphasizes that marriage is something God joins together. It is a reminder of the sacredness of the covenant. Many couples include it in their wedding vows.
ReflectHow can couples protect what God has joined together through daily choices and habits?
Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins.
1 Peter 4:8
Peter calls deep love the most important thing. Love covers a multitude of sins, offering grace instead of keeping score. It is a practical word for marriage and friendship.
ReflectIs there a small offense you could choose to cover with love rather than keep score of?